Saturday, December 1, 2018

Why?

One of the consequences of returning to school is the challenge of organizing my life to prioritize what matters. Hopefully, I'll have a better handle on this soon, which will mean more content for anyone who still reads this blog. I appreciate you all!


This semester I returned to the school I thought I would never see again. I returned to a life I thought I had left in the dust behind me - and in many ways, I had. Vestiges of that life were still there, but for the most part everything was different. I had to adjust to new schedules, new people, new challenges and priorities, all while dealing with old fears and pitfalls that I thought had been buried for a long time. Places I thought were strong revealed the cracks in their foundations, and places I thought I was sure to fall were more gentle than I had expected. God had so much to teach me this semester, and I’m so thankful that he is patient with me because I’m pretty sure I missed a lot of it.
One of the biggest things I learned this semester is that God is so much greater than any of us. His thoughts are higher than our thoughts; his ways are higher than our ways; his great and wonderful plans are unfathomable to our human minds. My prayers constantly tug at Him like a four year old with a demanding streak; “why did you allow this? Why am I here again? Why don’t you fix my problems? Why can’t I have what I’m asking for?”
If anyone had the right to ask why, it was Job, a man that God himself commended as righteous like no other. For a while he was blessed proportionately, his fields bountiful, his family happy, his household never lacking. Then, unprovoked, came blow after blow - in one day, he lost his children, his livestock, his servants, and his livelihood. Before he had time to recover from that, he himself was struck down with illness so painful he could barely stand it. And he, as any of us would do, asked why - why had all of this overcome him, when he still served and worshipped God with all of his heart? He did not sin against God through all this - only asked Him to explain Himself, to justify His seemingly random misfortune. The book of Job is mostly poetry, featuring Job and his friends trying to determine the root problem. We too grieve, we plead for answers, we beg to know why.
But the first two chapters lift the curtain, that the audience may know what Job does not. Satan himself asked for permission to persecute Job and steal all of these things from him. For reasons unexplained, God allowed it. So Satan went after everything that Job held dear, including his own health.
When God reappears at the end of the book, it is not not answer Job’s question of “why?” Rather, He reminds Job of His character, His might, His power, and His sovereignty. When we turn to God and His word, searching for answers, that is what we are met with - not solutions or reasons for our problems, but a reminder of the sovereign God who allowed them.
And this is enough.
It’s enough for Job, though his “why” is never answered. To the extent of human knowledge, he never learns of the conversation between God and Satan. To be reminded by God Himself of who He is is enough. To remember who holds his entire life in His hands is enough.
And it’s enough for us too, once we learn to accept it. We, too, can learn to say with Job, “the Lord has given, and the Lord has taken away; blessed be the name of the Lord,” (Job 1) and “I know that you can do all things, and that no purpose of yours can be thwarted.”(Job 42)
My little brothers always ask why when they don’t understand. Sometimes they plead and beg and scream to know why. My parents explain, of course, when they know my brothers can understand their reasoning. But many times, the reasoning is far beyond their capacity to comprehend - not because of any particular flaw with my brothers, but simply because they are not on that level. ‭When they beg and scream to know why, they sometimes cannot even understand what they would when they are calm.
And when my brothers still demand to know why, many times my mother or father will simply hold them or look them in the eye and say, “Because I said so. Because I’m the parent and I know what is best.”
God is so infinitely far beyond anything we can imagine. He holds time itself in His hands and molds the hearts of humanity like clay. His breath gave life to our souls and His words created everything in the known and unknown universe. His mind is so far above ours that this example with my brothers is almost laughable. If He explained His masterful plan to us in human terms, we still would never be able to grasp it. So many, many, many times, He merely reminds us of who He is - our magnificent Creator, our loving Father, our compassionate King, our scandalously merciful Redeemer. He reminds us that He knows best.
This does not make going through these trials any easier. What it does is give us a glimmer of understanding that, should we choose to accept it, allows us to bow our heads and say, “Your will be done. How can I best glorify You and honor Your name, even here, even now?”
And then - then, beloved - He will work in ways we never could have dreamed. Are you ready to move on from asking why?

Were you blessed by this post? I've been thinking about a project which could help people with life struggles - especially depression or long-term questioning God - to begin healing by refocusing on God and who He is. If you'd be interested, let me know! And if you have any ideas along those lines, I'd love to hear them!

Sunday, July 22, 2018

Tapestry

I've been trying to figure myself out for a long time now (and if any of you think you have done so, I'd love to hear about it). The person I thought I was seemed to disappear in a wave of new experiences, tears, struggles, insecurities, and doubts. So many things I never thought I'd face began to stare me right in the eyes, and I crumbled under their strength in ways I never thought I would.
Then came the turning point, where I began to fight my way through and develop the tools I needed to fight the battles I hadn't prepared for before. I sharpened swords I hadn't thought I'd need to use and slowly won victories I'd had to work twice as hard for. I learned to rely on God in ways I thought I was already sure of and reinforced my faith where I hadn't realized it was crumbling.
Now I'm coming out the other side, in some ways. I'm quickly coming upon my second chance to get this right, my test to see if I've truly learned what I needed to in order to be able to deal with myself, the person that I hadn't known I was. It's been a long road in some ways and flown by in others, but one of the most important things I've learned throughout it is that my struggles make me who I am, but that doesn't reduce me to my struggles.
That's always been one of my favorite things about Jesus - He took the time when He was on earth to look past what the eyes of the world saw and act on what He saw with His eyes of love. A man possessed by demons, a woman with an immoral past, people afflicted by diseases seen as curses in that time - Jesus spoke with them all. He showed them His love even before granting them their miracles, by looking past their debilitating conditions and treating them as people. Some of them had never or very rarely had the respect of human decency before; others had lost it through actions of their own choosing. Jesus didn't ignore that; He exorcised the demons, He forgave sins, He healed blindness and paralysis. But in the ways He chose to do that, He offered them more than just the loosing of their chains. He offered a second chance, a life wiped clean, a path to follow after Him with love and gratitude.
What that means to me is that Jesus sees past my struggles, my insecurities, every doubt I've ever had, every time I've argued with Him and tried to run from what He set before me. It means that He looks at me with the same love with which He saw those beggars, paralytics, and demon hosts. He chose to look at me when I was huddled on the floor afraid to even say His name and draw His attention, and He chose to tell me, "It's okay. We're going to get those chains off of you. I love you with an everlasting love, and that means I'm going to be here every step of the way."
It means that He sees me as more than the fights I wasn't ready for. He sees the fights He wins every day for me. He sees the child that He created in His own image, and - I believe - He is excited to bring her once again out of darkness and into His marvelous light.
My struggles, my battles, the every day on earth that I can't understand; it's all like a tangled mess of string to me. Even after hours and hours of working on trying to untangle it myself, I get lost and often more tangled than before. I also occasionally see a cloth that some of the strings seem to attach to, and some days it's one more frustration, one more piece that doesn't seem to fit.
When I get to see Jesus, I imagine Him taking that cloth that was wrapped up in knots and loose ends. The final few strings will be freshly cut. And He'll turn the cloth over to show me a marvelous tapestry, with intricacies and details that I could never have even imagined.
And in this place in my imagination, I can almost hear Him saying, "Those knots and tangles are a part of who you are, but they are not how I see you."

Saturday, April 21, 2018

Second Chances






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This year is flashing by at an unbelievable speed. Some years of my life have soared by lazily like a seagull; some have passed with a determined, steady pace like a hawk; but this year is darting by like a hummingbird, nearly too fast for the human eye to see.
This year, in some senses, is a marker that I will look back on in years to come. I will remember it as the year I chose to give up the dream that I thought God had called me to. The year I struggled with God's plan and purpose for me. The year that, perhaps most significantly, I chose to heed God's call to a place I thought I would never go again, to confront my hidden insecurities, and hopefully the year that I was able to surrender all of it to Him and set my face towards my fear.
You see, God has called me to return to the school that I left in haste and in tears. The same school where I struggled with who I was when my initial plans crashed down around my ears. The same school where I first confronted deep depression, suicidal thoughts, and many other intense enemies - yet it is a place of God's light and grace. For the time I have spent away from it, though, I have looked at this place which for me once shone with God's presence, and I have seen only darkness, despair, and fear. When the thought crept into my mind that maybe, just maybe, I should return, I laughed in its face. How could I ever go back and subject myself to that again?
This was compounded by the fact that I thought I had found God's plan for me. I had a dream career that was lining up nicely, and I was settling into the comfort I always find in thinking I know what the next chapter of my life holds. How could I give it up to return to the darkness that still haunts me like a specter, with no guarantee that my life would ever turn this direction again?
But God, in His wisdom, set me on this path for a while and then beckoned me to take a fork that leads back to the valley I left behind. It is not because I missed the point the first time. It is not because I forgot to do something or need to undo a wrong I committed. This, rather, is a fresh start. A second chance at beginning, yet with all the wisdom of my time away to guide me.
Jonah, too, heard God's plan and must have laughed in disbelief. He had a comfortable life with a determined future in a field of ministry that God had obviously called him to. Yet God chose him to strike out on a path he had no desire to tread, and he ran from it. God had every right to scrap the whole idea, allow Jonah to suffer the full consequences of his disobedience, and start afresh with a prophet who would be more receptive to the thought. Instead, He held Jonah with an unfaltering hand to the course that He had set, and used him to deliver the message that saved an entire city.
Jonah was given a second chance. He had more to learn from this journey to Nineveh.God wasn't done with him yet; he had a story to complete that was beyond Jonah's comprehension - a story that touches lives even today.
I, too, have a second chance. I have more to learn. I have more to do. For whatever reason, God is not done with me at this school, and that means He will hold me to the course that He has set with a hand just as unfaltering as the one that held Jonah. I am thankful that His hand does not grip my wrist and drag me along, as an irritated parent might drag a wayward child. Instead, His hands hold me close to His heart, like a shepherd comforting a lamb that had been lost. He does not bring me to this place again for a second dose of the pain that happened my first time through; He brings me here to heal me of it.
I am not the person I was then. I will not face the same struggles that she faced. I will not make the same mistakes that she made. Hopefully, the only similarity is that I will cling to my Father as hard as she did; that I will trust in His plan as desperately as she did; and that I will find as much peace in His embrace as she did.
What about you? Is there something you've given up on that still sits quietly in the back of your mind? Is there a fear that still haunts your steps that God wants you to face head-on? Where is your Nineveh? And what would a second chance look like - a grace-filled, beautiful, unexpected second chance?